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- My husband and I are about to be empty nesters. To reconnect, we took a trip together, but it was awkward at first. (businessinsider.com)
As the fall approaches, a local couple prepares to embrace a new chapter in their lives: becoming empty nesters. After more than two decades focused on raising their children, Rebecca Hastings and her husband decided to take a five-day trip together to reconnect and adjust to life without their kids at home.
The timing felt challenging. Their son was home for the summer from college, their eldest daughter had just gotten married, and their youngest was about to leave for college. Despite the urge to spend every possible moment with their children, the couple recognized the importance of shifting focus back to themselves.
They chose a wellness resort nestled in the Berkshires for their getaway-a break longer than any they had taken without their children. With all practical arrangements made and the kids and dog well cared for, they set out with a mix of excitement and apprehension.
Driving away, Rebecca found herself concerned about her children’s well-being, frequently checking in remotely. Yet once at the resort, the couple embraced the opportunity to relax and try new activities together, from couples massages and cooking classes to pickleball lessons. The absence of schedules and obligations allowed them to enjoy simple pleasures like lingering over coffee and exploring the area.
Not every moment was easy. The silence of a table for two felt unfamiliar after years of lively family dinners, and they found themselves relearning how to have conversations that weren’t centered on their children. However, these quiet moments offered a valuable chance to reconnect and prepare for the changes ahead.
Reflecting on the trip, Rebecca acknowledges that life will inevitably change when their kids leave home, but it’s not solely about loss. Instead, this journey helped them look forward to the next phase together, ready to build a life focused once again on their partnership and shared experiences.
This thoughtful trip served as a meaningful transition, easing the couple into the empty nest stage with renewed hope and anticipation for the future.