Dear Eric: In my social club there is a woman who, for two years now, has deliberately snubbed me and will not even return a hello. At the same time, she effusively greets others near me.
I am well-liked in the club and a club leader. I heard that she feels I am responsible for another woman’s sudden departure. That woman was difficult as well, but I didn’t ask her to leave. There could be some jealousy from them toward me. But we are not in high school, ladies!
I have been taking the high road and not engaging with her other than to be polite, but she’s not polite back. This situation is ruining my good feelings about the club…