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- I drained my savings to take my 7-month-old on a trip to Ireland. It was worth it for him to meet his great-grandmother. (businessinsider.com)
A deep-seated desire to connect my child with his Irish heritage filled me from the moment I learned I was pregnant. My father, born and raised in Northern Ireland, became my storyteller, recounting family tales from his childhood. These stories, of his family navigating life amidst war, became precious to me, and I longed to share them with my son.
My grandmother was approaching her 90th birthday when my son was born. Taking him to Belfast to meet her became a priority, but a challenging one.
Medical expenses from post-childbirth disabilities, coupled with the cost of raising a child, made the trip seem financially impossible. I had left my full-time job, relying on freelance writing and editing, while my husband finished graduate school and worked an underpaid administrative job.
A window of opportunity appeared in May with lower airfare. Driven by the desire to connect my son with his great-grandmother, we dipped into our savings, supplemented by some graduation money, and booked the tickets.
From the outset, the trip felt blessed. My husband received a job offer at the gate, and our seven-month-old son charmed fellow passengers before sleeping soundly throughout the flight. The highlight, however, was the time spent with my grandmother.
Despite being in a wary phase with strangers, my son instantly connected with his great-grandmother, reaching out to her with a smile. She sang Italian songs, shared family stories, and insisted on family meals together.
The trip’s impact resonated deeply with my son, now a toddler. He remembers her Italian wave and forehead kisses, and his face still lights up when he sees her on video calls. Walking with him along a river path with family, I felt a sense of belonging, a feeling I believe my son shared.
Later that year, despite the financial strain, we withdrew from my retirement savings. The trip’s value, the connection forged between generations, made the cost worthwhile. Now, we watch our finances, eager for the next opportunity to return.