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- My daughter called me from college every day, crying because she hated it. I had to go against all parenting advice to help her adjust. (businessinsider.com)
From Tears to Triumph: How One Mom Helped Her Daughter Conquer College Blues
Sending a child off to college is a rollercoaster of emotions. For one local mom, the excitement quickly turned to concern as her daughter’s daily tearful calls painted a picture of college misery. This wasn’t just typical homesickness; her daughter truly felt trapped and unhappy, despite excelling academically.
The advice from other parents was consistent: don’t answer every call, force her to stay on campus, and let her tough it out. But this mom’s instincts told her otherwise.
She knew her daughter needed support, so she picked up every call, offering a listening ear and a shoulder to cry on. She also offered her daughter a lifeline: the option to come home on weekends.
This simple act gave her daughter the breathing room she needed to persevere.
Recognizing that her daughter’s needs were unique, this mom sought help outside the typical college support channels. A virtual counselor provided coping strategies and empowered her daughter to take control of her situation.
Perhaps the most impactful piece of advice this mom offered was permission to leave school altogether. While surprising, this gave her daughter the agency to truly own her decision to stay.
Against the prevailing wisdom, this mom trusted her instincts and prioritized her daughter’s well-being. The result?
Her daughter moved off campus for her sophomore year, found her own space, and is thriving. This local mom’s story is a powerful reminder that sometimes, the best parenting advice comes from within.