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- We were tired of Florida weather, so we moved to Annapolis. The hardest part has been meeting new people. (businessinsider.com)
Annapolis Condo Complex: Not So Neighborly
Mary Ellen Collins and her husband traded Florida’s humidity and hurricanes for the charm of Annapolis, Maryland, 17 months ago. Drawn by the city’s sailing culture, vibrant arts scene, and proximity to colleges, they settled into a condo in a seemingly ideal location – a small complex nestled between a quiet residential area and the bustling historic downtown.
They envisioned an easy transition, picturing a welcoming community within their 78-unit building. However, their expectations of neighborly camaraderie have yet to materialize.
The couple quickly noticed an unusual silence within the building. Days passed without encountering fellow residents, creating an almost eerie atmosphere.
Unlike their previous close-knit neighborhood in St. Petersburg, Florida, there were no welcoming committees, no shared plates of cookies, and no friendly introductions.
Even brief encounters in the elevator or garage resulted in perfunctory exchanges, limited to inquiries about their origins and concluding with a cursory “welcome.”
One resident did extend an invitation for coffee with their immediate neighbors, offering a glimmer of hope. However, despite the initial pleasantries, further interaction proved minimal, leaving the Collinses feeling somewhat isolated. They’ve found that most residents seem to prefer privacy over community, treating the building as a temporary dwelling rather than a place to cultivate relationships.
This sense of insularity extends beyond their condo complex. The Collinses observed that Annapolis, despite its smaller size compared to St.
Petersburg, has a different social dynamic. Locals have even commented on the city’s reserved nature towards newcomers, jokingly suggesting a 30-year residency requirement for acceptance.
While they appreciate the city’s amenities and have immersed themselves in the sailing and arts communities, the lack of neighborly connection remains a significant contrast to their previous experience.
The Collinses remain optimistic about finding their niche in Annapolis, actively seeking opportunities to connect with others. However, the question of whether their move was the right one remains unanswered, as they continue to navigate the social landscape of their new home.