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- My husband is 10 years older than me. The age gap was noticeable when we first started parenting, but now I see it as an asset. (businessinsider.com)
Local Mom Finds Love and Balance with Older Partner
A local woman reflects on the joys and challenges of raising a blended family with a husband ten years her senior. When Rachel Schneider met her husband, she was a 19-year-old college sophomore, while he was a 29-year-old business owner and father to a young son. The age gap presented initial hurdles, particularly in navigating parenting styles and life experiences.
Schneider admits that early on she deferred to her husband on disciplinary matters concerning his son, respecting his role as the biological parent. However, with the birth of their first child together, she experienced a shift in perspective. While acknowledging her husband’s prior parenting experience, she also felt the need to establish her own maternal identity.
The couple continued to grow their family, welcoming two more children. Schneider appreciated the spacing of their children, allowing her to savor each child’s early years. However, her husband’s age became a factor in family planning, leading them to have their last two children closer together in age.
Now, more than a decade into their parenting journey, the age difference that once seemed significant has become a source of strength. While occasional differences in parenting styles still arise, they view these variations as complementary rather than conflicting. Schneider believes their blended family benefits from the unique perspectives each parent brings, creating a balanced and enriching environment for their children.