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- 11 Things You Do When Tipping That Servers Secretly Hate (financebuzz.com)
With dining costs rising, it’s understandable to look for ways to stretch your restaurant budget-whether that means choosing more affordable menu options, skipping extras like appetizers or dessert, or opting for less expensive eateries. Servers recognize that patrons have budgets, including when it comes to tipping. However, it’s important to treat service staff with respect and avoid common tipping missteps that can leave a negative impression.
1. Saying you can’t afford to tip
While dining out can sometimes be pricier than anticipated, tipping is widely understood to be part of the total cost. Telling your server afterward that you can’t afford to tip can be particularly disheartening.
Many servers feel that if you can afford to eat out, you can afford to leave a tip.
2. Calculating tips before tax
Some may recall older etiquette advice suggesting tips be calculated on the pre-tax amount. Today, it’s more customary and appreciated to tip based on the full bill including tax.
Even a small extra amount goes a long way in showing appreciation.
3. Leaving less than a 20% tip
While tipping customs vary, many in the service industry consider 20% a fair baseline. Since servers often earn below minimum wage and rely heavily on tips, leaving less can shortchange them for their effort.
4. Not increasing the tip when your party creates extra work
Dining with a large group or children often means more orders and mess to handle. Leaving a tip above 20% in these situations acknowledges the added effort your server puts in.
5. Tipping mainly in coins
Though all money counts, tipping primarily with coins can be inconvenient or feel disrespectful to some servers. When possible, leaving cash bills or adding the tip to a credit card payment is more considerate.
6. Penalizing servers for issues beyond their control
Problems like an overcooked steak or an overly dressed salad are usually kitchen matters-not the server’s fault. Reducing a tip because of these issues unfairly punishes the server.
7. Not speaking up about problems and then tipping poorly
Servers can’t fix issues they don’t know about. If something’s wrong with your order, letting your server know gives them a chance to correct it.
Lowering a tip afterward without voicing concerns is unjust.
8. Ignoring tip pooling practices
Many restaurants pool tips among servers, bartenders, and support staff. Leaving a poor tip “to send a message” can inadvertently affect multiple hardworking employees.
9. Using tips to express personal interest
Tips should reflect service quality, not personal feelings or appearance. Tipping less because a server doesn’t respond to flirtation or giving gratuities based on looks rather than service is inappropriate.
10. Offering compliments instead of tips
Kind words are appreciated but don’t replace tips. Gratuities form a crucial part of a server’s income and aren’t bonuses for flattery.
11. Skipping tipping altogether
Unless service is genuinely terrible, it’s rarely acceptable to skip tipping. Servers depend on tips to make ends meet.
If something’s wrong, communicate it and give them a chance to address the issue.
In summary:
Tipping well demonstrates respect and fairness and acknowledges the realities of restaurant work.
If you need to manage your food budget, focus on cutting costs elsewhere-like grocery savings or dining out less frequently-rather than shortchanging the people who serve you. Fair tipping supports service staff, helps maintain a positive dining culture, and enhances the experience for everyone.
Money Tips That Work For Everyone
Regardless of your financial situation, you can always take steps to improve your money management and build wealth:
- Increase your income: Consider side hustles that fit around your full-time job or explore legitimate ways to keep more of what you earn.
- Grow your savings: Harness the power of compound interest by understanding your financial standing and making a plan. Consulting a financial professional can be especially helpful if you aim to retire early.
- Maximize benefits and avoid pitfalls: Take advantage of discounts and savings opportunities available to you, especially as a senior. For example, shopping around for car insurance can save you hundreds annually. At the same time, steer clear of money traps that quietly drain your resources.
Being thoughtful about both your tipping habits and your broader financial choices can lead to better experiences and stronger finances alike.
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