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In the aftermath of the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq, the United States has seen over two million of its citizens serve in combat zones. A significant portion of these veterans, roughly 600,000, have been diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), a condition that not only affects the individuals who served but also casts a long shadow over their families. Among those impacted are the children of these veterans, many of whom find themselves in caregiving roles far beyond their years, dealing with the emotional and psychological toll of living with a parent who is struggling with PTSD.
One poignant story is that of Chuck Rotenberry, a Marine who, after being injured in combat, returned home to battle both a brain injury from a concussion and PTSD. This battle at home took a harsh toll on his family, especially on his son, Kristopher, who from a young age assumed the heavy responsibility of care for his father. This role, filled with love and duty, also brought with it a significant emotional burden.
Further illumination of these family dynamics comes from the work of Elizabeth Dole’s foundation, which brings to light the challenges faced by over one million Americans caring for military members injured since the 9/11 attacks. Among them is Elizabeth Cornelius, who found herself in a similar situation to Kristopher Rotenberry. The daughter of a disabled veteran battling PTSD, Cornelius took on a co-parenting role to help her family navigate the convoluted path of managing a household under the shadow of mental health issues, all while facing barriers to accessing the care her parent so desperately needed.
Recognizing the need for support for these hidden heroes, organizations like the Dole Foundation have stepped up to provide vital resources. Their support ranges from financial assistance to peer support groups and respite care, all aimed at easing the considerable burden these families bear.
For the Rotenberry family, these resources, coupled with therapy and community support, have paved a path towards healing. Today, Chuck Rotenberry has found a new purpose working as a dog trainer, a testament to the possibility of recovery and growth.
His son, Kristopher, inspired by his father’s resilience, now looks to a future serving in the military, carrying forward a legacy of service and strength.
These stories underscore a critical aspect of military service — the impact of war extends far beyond the battlefield, into the lives of family members who serve in silent, unseen ways. As the nation grapples with the needs of its veterans, it becomes clear that supporting those who care for them is equally important, a mission that organizations like the Dole Foundation are committed to advancing.