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- When I brought my kids to a Pride parade, they were overwhelmed at first. But I learned children belong at Pride. (newsbreak.com)
In this heartwarming reflection, Jess deCourcy Hinds shares her experience navigating the vibrant, yet overwhelming world of Pride celebrations as a queer mother. Hinds, who previously relished the freedom and jubilation of Pride marches, faced new concerns with the prospect of bringing her young children into the fold. Her family, inclusive of her transgender wife, Stefanie, ultimately chose to attend a smaller, more family-oriented Pride event in Jackson Heights, Queens, marking a significant moment in their journey as an inclusive family unit.
As they navigated the festivities, Hinds grappled with the balance between her identity as a carefree participant and a protective mother. The lively atmosphere, characterized by music, dancing, and colorful displays, initially sparked worry as her oldest child clung to her in fear amidst the bustling crowd. Yet, the joy on her children’s faces as they waved their rainbow and Progress Pride flags reminded Hinds of the importance of this celebration, not just for her but for them as well.
The turning point came when the family, seeking refuge in a pizzeria, encountered a distressed woman. This unexpected meeting served as a pivotal moment, helping Hinds put into perspective the true essence of Pride.
The woman, a Latinx trans individual, shared her story of struggle and longing for a supportive family, touching Hinds and her family with her vulnerability. This interaction highlighted the spirit of Pride as not only a celebration of identity but also a platform for solidarity, understanding, and compassion.
Despite the initial fears and uncertainties, Hinds concludes that the experience enriched their family’s bond and their connection to the broader LGBTQ+ community. It reinforced the notion that Pride is about embracing one’s full self, supporting others in their own journeys, and fostering an environment of inclusivity and love. Her children’s lasting memory of the day might be the simple joy of playing with a hamster at a friend’s after-party, but the true essence of Pride – strength, vulnerability, and the beauty of the rainbow family – will remain a foundational part of their upbringing.