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- We moved our family to Florida for my husband’s job. It ruined our marriage — and I’m back in Ohio with the kids. (newsbreak.com)
Candace Powell shares her personal story of relocating her family from Ohio to Florida after her husband landed a new job opportunity which eventually led to their separation and decision to divorce. Initially thrilled about the prospect of a coastal life with easy beach access, the family made the move in 2017, drawn by the rare chance to relocate for work in a tricky economic environment.
Despite their excitement, the relocation was fraught with challenges. Her husband moved to Florida first, starting his new job while Powell managed both her career and the children back in Ohio.
This situation left her feeling like a single parent. By the time Powell and the kids joined him, her husband had already settled into his new life, making Powell feel disconnected and out of place.
Adjusting to their new environment proved more difficult than anticipated. The family missed their old home, friends, and the familiarity of Ohio. The isolation and challenges of adapting to a new community without solid support structures made daily life hard, leading Powell to decide to return to Ohio with the children.
This decision marked a turning point. Three months after moving back, her marriage ended as her husband left and filed for divorce.
In retrospect, Powell recognizes that the move was just the tipping point for a marriage that already had underlying issues. She reflects on the importance of focusing on the foundational aspects of relationships and wonders if things might have worked out differently had they addressed these issues sooner.
Now, years later, Powell has come to terms with the sequence of events, acknowledging that although the relocation played a role in their breakup, the fundamental issues in their relationship were the crucial factor. She has learned to accept the outcome and has gained perspective on both the move and the end of her marriage.