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- Kamala Harris, Taylor Swift, Jennifer Aniston and when we reduce women to ‘childless cat ladies’ (newsbreak.com)
You may be familiar with the term “childless cat lady.” It’s often used with a negative connotation, implying something undesirable. Yet, why should it be seen in a negative light?
In a discussion with Fox News’ Tucker Carlson in July 2021, while running for a U.S. Senate seat in Ohio, Republican Senator JD Vance labeled prominent Democrats like Vice President Kamala Harris – then a leading contender for the Democratic presidential nomination – as examples of what he described as “childless cat ladies” running the country.
According to Vance, these individuals, due to their own unhappy life choices, supposedly want to inflict misery on the rest of the nation. Vance’s remarks overlooked that Harris has two stepchildren through her marriage to Second Gentleman Douglas Emhoff.
Actress Jennifer Aniston took to Instagram to respond to Vance’s comments, suggesting that he was also seeking to restrict access to fertility treatments such as IVF. Fans of Taylor Swift also rallied in defense, celebrating Swift’s status as a beloved pet owner, unmarred by Vance’s derogatory terms.
Exploring the origins of the “childless cat lady” term sheds light on the persistent gender bias in society. Leora Tanenbaum, author of “I Am Not a Slut: Slut-Shaming in the Age of the Internet,” explains that while women are often negatively compared to cats, men are typically spared from such comparisons.
The stereotype imposed on women who aren’t mothers or are unmarried is deeply rooted in outdated gender expectations. In contrast, unmarried childless men often enjoy a more positive image as “bachelors” with “bachelor pads,” highlighting a stark gender disparity.
Highlighting the significant consequences, various experts pointed out that such stereotypes can lead to feelings of guilt or pressure among women who can’t or choose not to have children. This scrutiny might even be exacerbated by peer judgment among women.
Such stereotypes not only perpetuate outdated notions of gender roles but also send harmful messages about the value of women solely based to their familial roles, affecting young girls’ aspirations beyond merely being wives or mothers, as noted by experts in psychology and feminist history.
Whether by choice or circumstance, a woman’s decision to not have children is a personal matter and should be free from societal judgment. Challenging these gender stereotypes is crucial to fostering a fair and just society that recognizes the worth and dignity of every individual, irrespective of their parental status.