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Kelce’s ‘Game On’ Comment Sparks Speculation
Travis Kelce’s congratulatory comment on Josh Allen and Hailee Steinfeld’s engagement has fueled speculation that he’s the next in line to propose to Taylor Swift. However, experts caution against pressuring couples to conform to societal expectations of marriage.
Marriage Decline and Societal Shifts
In the US, marriage rates have been declining steadily. A 2019 report revealed that many people no longer view marriage as essential. Psychologist Antonia Hall notes that society is becoming more open to alternative relationship styles and less bound by traditional family structures.
Judgment and Scrutiny
Those who choose not to marry often face social stigma. This pressure stems from society’s fear of not fitting people into defined categories. Therapist Weena Wise believes that judging those who deviate from traditional norms is a way to cope with this fear.
Glamorizing Marriage
Traditionally, marriage has been seen as a symbol of companionship, security, and family. However, Hall cautions that this idealized view can lead to unrealistic expectations and neglect within relationships. She emphasizes that marriage requires ongoing effort and commitment.
Alternative Paths to Happiness
Experts stress that proposing and getting married are not prerequisites for a fulfilling and loving relationship. Hall believes that daily choice and appreciation are more meaningful expressions of love than legal or religious ceremonies. Wise commends individuals who avoid marriage for the wrong reasons and embrace alternative forms of relationships.
Swift and Kelce’s Journey
Swift and Kelce, both in their mid-30s, have experienced previous relationships. They may choose to get engaged in the future, but only when they are ready and secure in their relationship.