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- My son is an only child. I was too tired to have another baby. (newsbreak.com)
Motherhood Decision: Balancing Age, Fatigue, and Expectations
As a single mother, raising a child alone made having another baby seem impossible. Even after marrying, the significant age gap between her son and a potential sibling gave the author pause.
The thought of starting over with a newborn, while her son was nearing teenage years, filled her with dread. She felt close to finishing her parenting journey and was reluctant to return to square one.
Parenting had been exhausting for the author, who had been a single mother for seven years. Despite her love for her son, she often felt burnt out. Her husband, who became an involved stepdad, agreed that parenting was a full-time job that left little time for rest.
Age also played a factor in the couple’s decision. Being in their mid-30s, they realized that having another child would mean they would be approaching 60 when the child graduated high school. They preferred to spend their future years as a couple without the responsibilities of child-rearing.
Initially, the author and her husband had leaned towards having a baby. However, after discussing the possibility of a childless future, they realized it was what they truly desired. They were tired of the expectations and wanted to prioritize their relationship and travel.
The author admits that she sometimes misses the idea of having another child, but ultimately believes she and her husband made the right decision. They are content with the fulfillment their son brings and look forward to a new chapter in their lives once he becomes independent.
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