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- I’ve returned to working in the office, and it has ruined motherhood for me. My son is now more attached to his nanny. (businessinsider.com)
A local mother shares her struggle with returning to office work after years of working from home. She describes the joy of spending time with her young son during her at-home work period. Financial instability, however, forced her to take a traditional 9-to-5 job.
This transition has been difficult. She now relies on a nanny to care for her son during the day.
The author worries about her son’s growing attachment to the nanny and the weakening of their own bond. She recounts instances where her son has clearly favored the nanny, leaving her feeling heartbroken and guilty.
The mother is now grappling with the challenges of balancing her career and motherhood. She cherishes the few hours she has with her son, especially bedtime and weekends. She’s trying to make the best of the situation by appreciating the nanny’s role and including her as part of the family.
Though she misses the close connection she once had with her son, she acknowledges the complexities of working from home. She continues to navigate the difficult balance between providing for her son and nurturing their relationship, hoping to find a solution that works for everyone.