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- My wife died in 2018. When I remember my late spouse, my new wife doesn’t seem to get jealous. (businessinsider.com)
Phoenix grief therapist Katie Zicarelli Gesell, 34, found love again after the sudden death of her wife, Melissa. Melissa passed away from cardiac arrest in 2018, just 10 months after their wedding.
Katie met her current wife, Emily, through mutual friends. Emily offered unwavering support during Katie’s grieving process. Their friendship eventually blossomed into romance, leading to their marriage in 2022.
Emily’s compassion extends to Katie’s cherished memories of Melissa. During a recent illness, Emily comforted Katie with Melissa’s favorite blanket. This simple act of kindness spoke volumes about Emily’s acceptance and understanding.
Katie continues to honor Melissa by wearing her ring and using her maiden name as her middle name. Emily has never felt threatened by these tributes, recognizing that love isn’t a finite resource.
Katie’s story resonated with many online, challenging the notion that remembering a deceased loved one disrespects a current partner. She believes that embracing a partner’s past is crucial for a healthy relationship. For Katie, Emily’s empathy has only deepened their love.