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Daycare Drop-Off to Lifelong Friendships: How a Mom Found Her Village
Making mom friends in a new town, while working from home and juggling two toddlers, can feel like an impossible task. But for one local mom, sending her kids to daycare opened up a world of connection she never expected.
It all started with small talk at daycare drop-off and pick-up. Those brief exchanges about finger paintings and daily activities sparked unexpected bonds between strangers.
The daycare’s indoor play space, “The Treehouse,” hosted after-hours events, offering a chance for parents and kids to socialize. Tuesday nights became a ritual, with a “Work It Out” theme where kids played while moms squeezed in a workout.
This weekly tradition solidified a friendship between three moms – and their children, who have grown up together and can’t remember a time they weren’t friends.
When The Treehouse closed its evening program, the moms continued their Tuesday get-togethers, rotating between homes. These evolved into playdates, lunch dates, birthday parties, and a constant stream of texts.
From surprise amusement park trips and annual river tubing adventures to baby showers and school carpools, these moms became each other’s support system. One mom, a longtime resident, became the go-to source for local knowledge and a voice of reason, providing invaluable support and advice.
As time went on, the circle expanded, welcoming new faces into the fold. Their children formed close bonds, solidifying their friendships through shared experiences both inside and outside of daycare.
Today, the three-way text thread has blossomed into an eight-person group chat, a testament to the enduring power of these connections. Life has gotten busier, with kids involved in sports and other activities, a friend who moved several hours away, and another facing a health challenge.
Yet, despite distance, demanding schedules, and life’s curveballs, these moms remain a constant source of support for one another. They continue to celebrate holidays and birthdays together, navigate the ups and downs of parenting, and offer a listening ear or a helping hand whenever needed.
What began as a simple decision to send her kids to daycare unexpectedly blossomed into a network of support and friendship, proving that family can also be the people you choose.