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- Drinking used to get me through bad dates. When I quit alcohol, I also stopped using dating apps. (businessinsider.com)
Dating App Fatigue Leads to Double Ditch: Woman Quits Booze and Bumble, Finds Happiness
46-year-old Bella Falk found herself relying on alcohol to navigate the often-disappointing world of dating apps. A drink or two eased the awkwardness of first dates, provided liquid courage for flirting, and offered a quick escape route from lackluster encounters.
But the cycle of swiping, small talk, and subsequent hangovers began to wear her down. Falk realized that the pursuit of a partner had become a full-time, emotionally draining job.
A year and a half ago, Falk made a radical decision: she quit both alcohol and dating apps. Tired of the endless cycle of hope and disappointment, she decided to focus on her own well-being and happiness.
The results have been transformative. Falk reports better sleep, improved health, and a significant boost to her mental well-being.
The constant worry and emotional rollercoaster of dating app interactions have been replaced with a renewed focus on her career as a travel writer and photographer. She now spends her time exploring the world and pursuing her passions.
Falk hasn’t ruled out dating altogether, but she’s embracing a different approach. She hopes to meet someone organically through shared interests, bypassing the often-superficial world of dating apps. And who knows, she might even be open to a dinner date.