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- My kids started having sleepovers in Kindergarten. They knew they could call me at any time and I would pick them up. (businessinsider.com)
Sleepovers: A Parent’s Perspective
Sleepovers. The word conjures up images of giggling kids, late-night snacks, and whispered secrets. As a parent, I wanted my children to experience the same childhood magic I did, even though sleepovers have become a somewhat controversial topic.
My own sleepover memories are filled with flashlight-lit conversations and the thrill of staying up way past bedtime. I wanted to recreate that joy for my kids. So, even when they were kindergartners, I started allowing them to have sleepovers, both at our house and at the homes of their friends.
Of course, with this freedom came one very important, non-negotiable rule: If they ever felt uncomfortable for any reason, at any time, they could call me, and I would pick them up, no questions asked.
This rule offered both my children and me peace of mind. I always informed the host parents of this arrangement, and thankfully, no one ever objected. I made it clear to my kids that I would take the blame if needed, inventing a family emergency or forgotten event so they wouldn’t feel awkward about leaving.
Over the years, this rule has been tested. Once, my son called me in the middle of the night from a sixth-grade sleepover.
Without hesitation, I drove to pick him up, assuring him he didn’t need to explain. Weeks later, he confided that a minor disagreement had prompted the call.
I reinforced that he had absolutely done the right thing.
While most sleepovers have been filled with fun and laughter, knowing they have an “out” empowers my children. It’s a simple rule, but one that ensures their comfort and safety always come first.