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- My grandmother had 10 children and not a lot of money. She taught me how to live on a tight budget as a single mom. (businessinsider.com)
My grandmother raised 10 children on a modest income, yet they were always cared for and happy. How did she do it?
This question came to mind when I read her obituary, which simply stated: “She kept her 10 children fed and clothed.” As a single mother myself, I was always impressed by her resourcefulness.
I was fortunate enough to live near her after my son was born and learned valuable lessons from her example.
One of her secrets was thrifting. She loved scouring thrift stores and yard sales, finding clothes, furniture, and even toys for her grandchildren.
She even volunteered at a local thrift store in her retirement. Her knack for finding gently used treasures helped me immensely, especially during tougher financial times.
I remember finding unique, affordable Christmas gifts for my son that he cherished, oblivious to the fact they weren’t brand new. We also furnished my first home with yard sale finds, including my dining room table and a lawnmower!
Beyond material things, my grandmother had a way of making everyday meals feel special. With simple additions like pickles, olives, and linen napkins, dinner became an event.
She was a master at stretching food, a skill honed during the Great Depression, repurposing leftovers and never letting anything go to waste. She created a warm, welcoming atmosphere in her home, always offering a cookie or a cup of coffee.
It was about more than just the food; it was about connection and hospitality.
As a single mom, I found myself adopting her practices. I decorated my son’s birthday parties with items I already had around the house and focused on building inexpensive holiday traditions that emphasized togetherness, like baking cookies or driving around to look at Christmas lights. Gifts were thoughtful rather than extravagant, mirroring the single, special gifts my grandmother always gave.
My grandmother taught me that providing for my son wasn’t solely about money. It was about creating a loving and secure environment.
She showed me how to create an “illusion of plenty,” focusing on what truly mattered: a warm home, quality time, and a mother’s love. My son never felt like he lacked anything, because he had everything he truly needed.