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- My husband takes our sons on a trip without me every summer. They swim, fish, and stay up late, and I enjoy taking time for myself. (businessinsider.com)
An Empty Nest Can Be Full of Possibilities
Five years ago, a casual suggestion for a father-son getaway turned into an annual tradition that benefits the whole family. While the husband and two teenage sons are off on their yearly lake trip, mom gets some much-needed downtime at home.
Initially, a pet-sitting dilemma prompted the solo staycation. With multiple pets, boarding wasn’t feasible.
Mom admits to a touch of guilt and anxiety as the trio embarked on their first trip. She’d encouraged this bonding experience, but the reality of an empty nest brought a pang of uncertainty.
The first year was a learning curve. A self-described former Navy spouse accustomed to solitude, this mom found herself surprisingly overwhelmed by the silence. An ambitious to-do list became a humorous testament to her rediscovering alone time after years of parenting.
Over time, the pre-trip anxieties faded. No longer consumed with packing lists and reminders, she now watches her sons, now teenagers, confidently prepare with their dad.
The week away has become a cherished ritual for the boys – filled with swimming, fishing, junk food, and late-night movies. Mom acknowledges the positive impact of her absence, recognizing the trip as a unique bonding experience for the three of them.
The time alone provides a valuable opportunity for Mom to recharge. Past years involved girls’ nights and visits from friends.
This year, creative projects, a good dose of binge-watching, and the simple pleasure of a quiet house were on the agenda. The flexibility of a schedule free from family mealtimes and bedtime routines allows for a sense of freedom.
Five years in, the annual trip has become something everyone anticipates. The to-do lists are shorter, the focus is on fun, and the entire family returns refreshed and recharged, ready to embrace the year ahead.