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- My college kids went back to school, so I went on a cruise alone. It was awkward at first, but I loved my alone time. (businessinsider.com)
Cruising Solo: A Mom’s Journey of Self-Discovery
When my kids headed back to college this fall, I embarked on a personal adventure: a solo cruise. Years of carpools and swim meets had left me craving some serious alone time. While a romantic getaway would have been nice, I decided to embrace the opportunity to travel solo, and I couldn’t be happier with the decision.
Contrary to what some might think, traveling alone doesn’t equate to loneliness. On the massive Royal Caribbean ship, I found quiet corners and bustling spaces alike where I could simply be. Sipping a cocktail in Central Park, I realized this trip was a chance to gain a new perspective.
Stepping outside my comfort zone, I struck up a conversation with a fellow passenger about her colorful drink. It was a small gesture, but it was a victory for me.
Normally, surrounded by family, I’d be focused on their needs and enjoyment. This time, I was free to prioritize my own.
Dining solo was another empowering experience. Instead of feeling self-conscious at a table for one, I chose to savor the moment.
I observed the other diners, reflected on my day, and truly appreciated the opportunity to simply be present with myself. It was a luxurious hour dedicated solely to my own thoughts and feelings, a luxury I rarely afforded myself in my everyday life.
This short cruise taught me valuable lessons about self-care and prioritizing my own needs. Pushing myself beyond my comfort zone, giving myself grace, and putting myself first were all gifts I wouldn’t have unwrapped on a typical family vacation. It reinforced the idea that sometimes, the best way to find inner strength is to forge your own path.
Would I take another solo cruise? Absolutely. It was a journey of self-discovery I won’t soon forget.