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From “Single Soon” to “I Do”: Selena Gomez’s Love Story Takes a Joyful Turn
For much of 2023, pop sensation Selena Gomez was all about embracing her single status. She playfully teased her unattached life on TikTok and even dropped her hit track, “Single Soon,” shutting down any whispers of romance – even a brief connection to The Chainsmokers’ Drew Taggart. Her message was clear: she was happily unattached and thriving.
But oh, how quickly things can change! Fast forward to today, and Selena’s relationship status has taken a delightful detour.
The multi-talented star is now married to record producer Benny Blanco, a romance she first confirmed in late 2023 before the pair officially tied the knot in 2025. What began as a long-standing professional friendship through various music collaborations blossomed into a heartwarming love story that has truly captivated fans.
While Selena, 31, has always been open about her life, including her journey through various high-profile relationships, her new chapter with Benny marks a significant, joyful shift. Let’s take a look back at some of her memorable romances and how she ultimately found her lasting love.
A Look Back at Selena’s Journey to Love
Nick Jonas: The Sweet “Puppy Love” of Disney Days
Back in their youthful Disney days, Selena and Nick Jonas shared a sweet, albeit brief, romance in 2008.
Their connection even saw Selena starring as Nick’s love interest in the Jonas Brothers’ “Burnin’ Up” music video that same year. By 2015, Selena affectionately recalled the innocent fling as “puppy love, you know, it was very sweet.”
Taylor Lautner: A Vancouver Romance Under the Paparazzi Lens
Another early romance for Selena was with Twilight heartthrob Taylor Lautner.
The two met in Vancouver in 2009 while both were filming movies – Selena for Ramona and Beezus and Taylor for Twilight: New Moon. Their casual outings for lunch, dinner, and even bowling quickly drew intense paparazzi attention.
As Selena explained in a 2009 interview, “we literally just wanted to hang out… and it went a little too far, I think. People were getting a little crazy about us.”
The romance was short-lived, with Selena confirming her single status by the time of her interview.
Zedd: A “Cute Little German” and a Collaborative Fling
The “Naturally” songstress also had a brief, rumored fling with internationally acclaimed DJ Zedd in early 2015.
Their connection sparked while collaborating on the song “I Want You To Know,” released in February 2015, with flirty social media posts teasing their joint project. Selena gushed about Zedd at the time, calling him “this cute little German” with “really beautiful eyes” who was “very sweet and funny” and “talented.”
Though they parted ways by April, they remained on good terms, with Selena admitting, “I adore [him] a lot and I definitely had a thing with him, which was nice.”
During this period, Selena also faced romance speculation with One Direction’s Niall Horan (in both 2015 and 2019) and Pirates of the Caribbean star Orlando Bloom (in 2014 and 2016), though she and Niall both denied these rumors.
Charlie Puth: The Mystery Behind “We Don’t Talk Anymore”
Selena’s 2016 collaboration with Charlie Puth on “We Don’t Talk Anymore” hinted at more than just a musical partnership.
Charlie later suggested that something “very short-lived, very small, but very impactful” was happening behind the scenes, admitting it “really messed me up.” He hinted that he wasn’t the only person on her mind at the time.
However, a source close to Selena later clarified that the two “never dated,” leaving fans to wonder about the true nature of their connection.
Justin Bieber & The Weeknd: The High-Profile Romances
Selena’s most famous and highly publicized relationships were undoubtedly with Justin Bieber and The Weeknd. Her on-again, off-again romance with Justin Bieber began sparking rumors in 2010 and became official with a red carpet debut in 2011, defining a tumultuous, widely followed relationship.
Then, in 2017, Selena and The Weeknd dated for ten months. Their relationship became public with dinner dates, an Italian getaway, and a memorable red-carpet appearance at the Met Gala.
Selena expressed her desire to be open, stating, “It’s too much pressure, and I think everyone gets over everything eventually… I just want to be happy.”
Despite their split in October 2017, Selena proudly shared that they ended on good terms, maintaining a “true friendship.” The Weeknd’s 2018 EP, My Dear Melancholy, contained lyrics that many fans believed referenced Selena, including a poignant line about offering to donate a kidney.
However, Selena later denied that her 2023 song “Single Soon” was about him, stating it “Couldn’t be more false.”
Drew Taggart: A Brief 2023 Fling
In January 2023, Selena was reportedly “casually” dating Drew Taggart of The Chainsmokers.
Insiders described their romance as “very casual and low-key,” enjoying activities like bowling and movies. Selena was said to be “very affectionate” with the rocker, and they were “having a lot of fun together.”
Despite a few public sightings, the romance quickly fizzled, with Selena confirming her single status by the end of the month, just as she’d been embracing.
Benny Blanco: A New Chapter and Lasting Love
Then came Benny Blanco. After months of speculation, Selena confirmed her relationship with the record producer in December 2023.
Responding to a fan post about their romance, she simply stated, “Facts.” She also “liked” several Instagram posts celebrating their budding love, further exciting her fan base.
The pair’s history wasn’t new; they had previously collaborated on Selena’s 2019 track “I Can’t Get Enough.” Selena soon revealed that she and Benny had actually been dating for about six months by then, placing the start of their romance around June 2023. Benny wasn’t shy either, often leaving sweet, flirty comments on Selena’s Instagram posts.
As their relationship deepened, Selena spoke openly about her happiness, calling Benny “the best thing that’s ever happened to me.” She lauded his ability to make her feel secure and loved, especially away from the glaring spotlight. The couple made several red-carpet appearances, their undeniable chemistry winning over fans who were thrilled to see Selena truly happy in what appeared to be a stable and grounded relationship.
By September 2025, Selena and Benny had taken the ultimate step, exchanging vows in a romantic Santa Barbara ceremony, surrounded by their closest friends and family. From embracing her independence to finding a profound connection, Selena’s journey to “I Do” is a testament to love’s unexpected and beautiful turns.