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- In my 60s, I sold the home I raised my son in and took a job on a cruise ship. It gave me the freedom I needed. (businessinsider.com)
Local Woman Embraces “Sea-Change” After Selling Home, Finds New Life as Cruise Photographer
At nearly 70, with her son grown and building his own life, a local woman decided it was time for a dramatic shift. After two decades of pouring herself into her home, she realized it no longer supported the future she envisioned. What followed was a journey of shedding possessions, rebuilding confidence, and embarking on a new, exciting career as a cruise ship photographer.
For almost 20 years, her house, with its teal doors, tire swing, and sunny studio, was a picture of stability. It was the place she raised her son as a single mother and built her photography career.
Most people assumed she’d stay there forever. However, when her son graduated and moved to Orlando, a new perspective emerged.
Having encouraged him to live the life he wanted, she realized it was time to do the same.
The House: A Money Pit and a Barrier to Freedom
Behind the charming facade, a less appealing truth surfaced. The house, once a sanctuary, had become a financial drain.
Its growing debt was a constant reminder that the life and freedom she desired were out of reach. While she had successfully raised an independent child, holding onto the house was preventing her from evolving into a new chapter filled with creative possibilities.
The process of sorting through her belongings revealed a profound insight: the objects themselves held little significance. It was the memories that truly mattered, and memories, she realized, don’t require storage space.
She photographed what was important, donated most of the rest, and watched as the remnants of her old life were taken away. This act of letting go provided a much-needed sense of breathing room, allowing her to envision what came next.
Selling the House and Finding a New Smile
The sale of her home provided both financial and emotional space to address a long-avoided issue: extensive dental work. With missing teeth, her confidence had waned, a challenging reality for a photographer who spent decades coaxing others to relax in front of the lens while avoiding it herself.
She entrusted her smile to a cosmetic dentist in southern Brazil, a connection made through a former exchange student. The cost there was significantly more realistic than in the United States.
Following surgery and initial healing, she traveled to Rio, where, for the first time in years, she felt uninhibited, ready to focus her lens and smile at the world without hesitation. The physical and financial burdens she had carried for years began to lift.
Brazil, she says, restored her confidence and proved that reinvention was still within reach.
Setting Sail: A New Career on the High Seas
Even before selling her house, she had explored ways to travel and work simultaneously. A friend’s experience as a sommelier on cruise ships and online suggestions for photography jobs at sea piqued her interest. She applied to a few with a sense of curiosity.
While still in Rio, the call came. She was offered a contract as the master photographer on a premium luxury cruise line, a role that would take her across multiple continents.
To qualify, she needed a Seafarer Certificate, which, at her age, required extensive medical and functional exams. Despite the humbling process, she passed.
With less than a week’s notice, her contract was set to begin in Sydney. After a 31-hour flight, and knowing she’d board within 24 hours, she dropped her bags at her hotel and walked the waterfront from Darling Harbor to the iconic Opera House, a misty shimmer through her lens.
Life at sea presented a study in contrasts. She photographed in a studio on the 15th floor but slept in a windowless cabin far below, climbing endless stairs daily.
The antiquated programs, cameras, and equipment made for long, tedious days. Yet, above deck, the ocean made everything worthwhile.
Unobstructed sunsets on open water had a profound effect on her mood, and each new port offered a fresh perspective. Her creative “mojo” began to re-emerge, a realization she attributes to having let go of so much.
A New Home and a Fresh Start
In just six months, she had visited three continents, achieved better health than she had in years, and, for the first time in decades, her smile came effortlessly. Her financial responsibilities felt lighter, and the spark she had been missing, buried under years of accumulating belongings and obligations, finally returned.
While recovering in Miami from an injury, another unexpected call arrived. An apartment became available in an Asbury Park building where she had applied years prior.
It boasted an ocean view, a community of artists and musicians, and an affordable rent. It felt, she says, as if the universe was offering her the chance to finally act on her hopes and creativity.
Having shed everything that once held her back, she gained freedom – the freedom to create, to travel, and to smile freely again, with her camera as her ticket forward.