We were short on money, and I didn’t think I could get my son the train set he wanted for Christmas. Another mom came to my rescue.

  • Courtney Ellis is a 42-year-old mom of three in Mission Viejo, California.
  • She found a used train set online and agreed to buy a quarter of the set.
  • When she went to collect the set, the seller gave her the entire set for no extra cost.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Courtney Ellis , author of Looking Up . It has been edited for length and clarity.

Ten years ago, my husband and I moved with our 2-year-old son from Wisconsin to California to work at a church. My husband was finishing a Ph.D., and our only source of income was a pastoral position at the church, which we split between the two of us.

We were eating through our savings just to make ends meet, living in a tiny condo, and hoping that in time, we’d both be able to take on more hours at the church.

Our first Christmas in California , I wanted to make our son’s Christmas special despite the stress of money and budgeting. Retrospectively, I can now see he would have been just as happy with a cardboard box, but at the time, as his mom, I wanted to be able to give him the world.

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