San Diego woman’s resolution is to go on 1 date a month. Then a 2am Hinge message from ‘Nick’ proves it’s impossible: ‘They just wanna be pen pals’

Millennials and Gen Z were promised meet-cutes. Instead, they got 2 a.m. “u up?” energy from men who treat Hinge like a long-distance pen pal program.

One San Diego woman thought she was setting a wholesome, achievable New Year’s resolution: one real, in-person date per month. Not a situationship. Not a talking stage. An actual date. Fast-forward to late February, and the only thing she’s collected is a 2 a.m. Hinge message from a man named Nick asking to “spontaneously hang out,” as if romance now requires insomnia and zero planning.

Her comments section then turned into a group therapy session for women exhausted by situationships, low-effort invites, or bare minimum requirements not being met.

What Happened With This Hinge Date?

It seems Seri (@serissnaps) has reached her breaking point. Maybe lasting more than a certain percent of the population, she might have to axe her New Year’s resolution in just the second month. So far, 61,500 viewers have gathered around to listen to her grievances surrounding the 2026 dating culture. The clip’s text overlay reads: “Going on one date a month update: men suck.”…

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