DELL RAPIDS, S.D. (Dakota News Now) – Zander Heathcote was a more quiet and reserved kid, except for at the bowling alley. There, he was at home. “This really wasn’t just bowling for him,” explained Zander’s mom Becky Heathcote. “This became his sanctuary. When he got here, in any bowling center, a light came on and he was vibrant and talked to everybody and became friends with all of the bowlers.”