A tribute to my friend’s son: ‘You only live one life. Why not live it to the fullest?’

Carson Philbin died in the ocean near a popular cliff-jumping spot in Hawaii on Jan. 13, the day after his 24th birthday.

My colleague Julia Coin spoke with friends of Carson’s for a story published by The Charlotte Observer on Friday, but I have something a little different to offer. I’ve known Carson’s father, Jason, for many years because we run (quite literally) in the same circles — we both belong to a group in Charlotte that trains together for running races and triathlons.

When I heard about Carson’s passing, I offered to write something for the program that was handed out at the memorial, which took place at Mercy Church on Providence Road on Saturday afternoon.

Here is exactly what I assembled, after talking to Jason and Nicole Philbin about their late son.

I hope it inspires you in some way, maybe to do something you’ve always wanted to do before it’s too late … or perhaps even just to hug your kids a little tighter the next time you see them.

Carson Philbin: 1/12/2000-1/13/2024

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